So you went off your hormonal BC? Some women do experience low sex drive on the Pill or shot. If it's that, you should be OK soon, hm? If you're not OK in a month or two, what else could it be?
How old are you? Are you under a lot of stress? Do you have sleep deprivation? How is your diet? Do you get romanced by your lovers or are you expected to "perform" sort of on command?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)