I feel for you Phy...we went through the baby-struggles a while back too. (We ended up giving up, but I hope your story has a better ending).
I understand about being fearful that your current "happy" could be burst...but the longer the "happy" continues the easier it is to see it continuing (while the greater the loss if it should go)...Cheers! and Good Luck!
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (together 21+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (together 3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS
TT: poly bi male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
VV and MsJ: bi-women with male primaries, LTR LDR FWBs to JaneQ
My poly blogs on this site:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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