Originally Posted by nycindie
I don't think anyone here is "pro-cheating."
no that is true, but I do believe the poly community seems better prepared to handle it and thus a bit more accepting it as a part of life and jaded to it as a result. Many are use to the idea of their partner "being" with someone else so cheating is more a breach of disclosure and trust. For the rest of the population its the breach of trust AND the shock of their partner WANTING to be with someone else AND the shock of their ACTUALLY having been with someone else.