Originally Posted by bookbug
I am female.
Okay, the reason, I came to the conclusion that you had not forgiven your wife is that you stated you still entertain thoughts of leaving her. That doesn't sound like forgiveness, but perhaps I am mistaken?
Okay, yes, I can see where proximity would be an issue.
If this is true, then why is she angry at you for denying access to her friend?
One can forgive, but if the relationship and connection changes to something else that feels too different, then it may still be best to leave.
She feels that my relationship with her friend has tainted her relationship with the friend. She recognizes the hypocrisy in that considering how my family has been tainted.