Originally Posted by bookbug
Enjoy your weekend!
One more thing, I doubt that either of them intended to hurt you. I know that doesn't help much. But confused people do some really weird shit. I had to learn to listen to my gut feelings the hard way too.
Ha! You got it, they are confused, they are both nice (if misguided people, as we all can be), and I know they both feel awful that I am hurt. They are busy this weekend as am I so the distance & lack of communication is helping a lot.
I have to wonder if she agreed to this so she could keep him since she knows she can't fulfill him. I will never ever understand why 2 people with vastly differently sexual desires marry. Am I wrong? Is "love" enough? Sorry, but it isn't for me. I want an equal partner.