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Old 07-05-2013, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Hetaera View Post
This is literally ONE TIME that I am asking him to do something for me. I have never once, once, made a demand on his time & he acknowledged that. All he said is he'd "think about it" not even that he "try". It's not even the break up that's upsetting me anymore, it's the being treating as a 2nd class citizen
At this point, I'm wondering what this night of closure will give you?
Why allow yourself to be treated as a 2nd class citizen? In what direction is your self-worth going to go if you tell him to pound sand, rather than giving him that one more night?

You're angry at yourself for not putting your foot down in the beginning. There's nothing that says you can't put it down now and start the healing.