I should change the title of this thread to say "He allowed his wife to end the relationship"...in the end. I only have myself to blame for my own unhappiness. What boringguy said is completely untrue & pointless....I am exploring my feelings & am being helped immensely by most of what is being written here. I do accept responsibility for my feelings even though J & his wife are confused & allowed their confusion to hurt me, which they have fully admitted to me.
Me- Bi-female-early 40s- Single Mom to 2 young boys
Exploring & having fun for the time being after a long & unhappy marriage
There is no failure. Only feedback. -Robert Allen