Just don't date guys who have wives, houses, kids and farm animals.
If you want to be #1, date someone who has time for you. It's your choice.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37