You set boundaries in poly relationships just like any other. You open your mouth and say something.
If you are uncomfortable with something say something. Just like if you saw someone going to hurt someone else you speak up.. at least I hope you would.
Stop being a passenger in life and take control.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.