VERY HELPFUL!!! Thank you. :: hugs ::
I am still learning about my "wiring" and hope that through more soul searching, I will will grow to understand myself better and to stop trying to beat myself up for not having the "norm" feelings of monogomy.
The other aspect I forgot to comment on was our kids. How do you incorporate a poly relationship into your family when you have kids? I have seen a few posts here about that topic but haven't researched it yet because the main issue of my affair was priority for me to work on.