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Old 07-03-2013, 01:05 PM
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What is the big deal?

I mean, I know it seems a big deal for the relationship between you and BF, as it's a nice step toward becoming closer and caring more, yadda yadda, but why would it require a big announcement, or be something you would be nervous about telling your husband? Love is what polyamory is all about.

What is it that frightens you about a simple feeling?
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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