Had our first date with Moonlight yesterday. I have a plan of visiting them every two weeks for a Friday to Sunday sleepover. Windflower has given her preliminary consent to the plan, but she still needs to think it through. I understand her; I will become a big part of their family life if the plan goes through.
Windflower also asked we keep PDA to the minimum in front of the kids. Cupcake begins preschool in the autumn and Windflower doesn't want the first thing to explain to the staff to be our situation. Since Moonlight had his vasectomy, I also need to get tested for STDs before we can move on to barrier free sex.
Me: bi female in my twenties