Obviously how "overdone" the fear is, is a matter of opinion.
But we are out, with kids, some parents are ok, a few are not.
Employers are aware, school, friends, family, etc.
Nobody really cares, some are more curious than others at first, but in the long run, they are all busy living their lives.
And I am aware of several poly families with children in our area who are out and they have no issues either.
"Love As Thou Wilt"