I did not mean carry on a don't ask don't tell situation with my MYOB statement. I meant keep your nose out of relationships you are not involved in. A lot of partners want to in force rules and regulations on the other relationship. Ie you can only see them x amount of time when I say. Veto powers.. I could go on.
Trust me there is no way I could spend the time I do with Murf if Butch wasn't aware of my relationship. He just has no rights to micromanage Murf and I
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.