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Old 07-01-2013, 02:37 AM
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I don't apply a hierarchy of primary and secondary status on my relationships, so my policy is "first come, first served." Whoever asks for my time first, gets scheduled if I am free. I don't cancel time with one person if someone else wants to see me.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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