Hugs. There's no way I (or anyone) can begin to tell you how things will turn out for you.
But, I thought I would share that our story was pretty frightful for a good long time. Possessive, controlling, insecure husband. Myself poly, but didnt know that existed. I cheated with the other love of my life.
We were separated, several times actually. But-we made it through.
Our sometimes colorful nightmare is posfed in areas on here, some in my blog here, much in my personal blog aafteota.wordpress.com
If you need to talk-feem free to pm me.
"Love As Thou Wilt"