How old are the kids? Are they all in school, or do you full time parent them?
Personally, I homeschooled our 3 and didnt begin practicing polyamory until my youngest was 18... but I had plenty of interests and charm left at that late date to attract tons of people to date (off off Ok cupid dating site). Why don't you join there and see who bites?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 42, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships