Originally Posted by JadeDoor
That's very helpful to know that the FWB is not entirely out of reach. though, knowing my husband and I emotionally like I do, I have a feeling that we won't be sticking to that for long, that relationships will become deeper than that. The woman he's dating is someone he's known a very long time and has a deep connection to. I don't see them NOT falling in love.
Aha. So this woman he's "known a very long time" is his ex wife, and neither of you really want FWBs, maybe that was just a safety thing to deflect some jealousy and insecurity for a while.
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