Thread: Shame and Fear
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Old 06-28-2013, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Marcus View Post
Originally Posted by KingCobra
And i threw out the triad expectations. They were talkig about it and I pressed the issue that things should just fall where they may. And the GF responded very positively at that because it did take all pressure off both of us
Good for you. The less pressure put on a relationship the higher the odds of something genuine co ming from it.
This is refreshing to hear. Lots of people come on here determined to start a triad, or they have tried to start one but it is turning out to be a V instead, and when advised to let go and proceed without expectation, stomp their feet and insist, "but a triad is what we WANT. We AGREED to it."
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