Yes I love snakes, specifically my 13yo baby (not pictured, lol)
This site and morethantwo.com have kinda become my go to resource if I feel i have an issue. I'm blessed with a wife and potentialish meta/paramour (we're not really sure WHAT the dynamic will be, they're not officially together yet) who want me to be included and not left out, and I'm encouraging them to not hold back just because I'm not as close to the bff.
Really we're just trying to figure things for the three of us atm (a triad of sorts is what everyone would prefer, but I'm trying to keep realistic and work only with the known quantity with would be a V) and if it stays a V they both are encouraging me to seek my own partner. So all in all it's stressful because it's new but encouraging because they're understanding.