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Old 06-27-2013, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Morava View Post
I feel ya. We are also from a small town and just found our soulmates. It was hard meeting people, had to do a dating website. We used OK Cupid and found another couple on the edge considering and he was ready where she was on the fence. My husband and her fell head over heals but he stated he was only looking for friends and I respect monogamy, so I never acted on my attraction towards him.

It clicked when they met. Never expected of all the couples I talked to, they would be the ones we would end up with...
You make it sound like you're stuck with being in a quad where you don't get any yum-yum. So, just because the husband in that couple only wants to be friends, why can't you pursue another guy for yourself?
The world opens up... when you do.

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