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Old 06-27-2013, 05:25 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I see you are upset. I see you wish it were different right now. You seem pretty high emotion at this time.

Let it be what it has to be right now. Do your self care while internal emotional weather is storming. You will be ok. Just hang in there for it to blow on through.

Later when you are calmer, could IDENTIFY problem areas first perhaps? Then once indentified, consider how to REDUCE stress/volume/intensity? Not focus or rush on to FIX totally just yet but just ID and then REDUCE the load?

Baby steps.
  • BF1 -- does he ADD to your problems? Or TAKE AWAY from your problems? In what way?
  • BF2 -- does he ADD to your problems? Or TAKE AWAY from your problems? In what way?
  • DH -- does he ADD to your problems? Or TAKE AWAY from your problems? In what way?
  • You -- does you ADD to your problems? Or TAKE AWAY from your problems? In what way?

GG

Last edited by GalaGirl; 06-27-2013 at 05:32 PM.
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