We are new to this as well I am going to be 30 Sunday and we have been together for 16 years. We decided to find another couple and it moved fast. i don't regret a bit of it, we just connected very well, so maybe you could find another couple so neither of you feel left out. I almost gave up being poly because it's easier for a girl to find a date than a guy and he almost gave up and I didn't want to leave him in the cold.
Since knowledge is infinite, it has infinitely fell on me.