Originally Posted by melodee1981
Thanks, I appreciate the honesty. But I am still unsure.
What are you unsure about? Whether or not you want to talk to him or just continue having affairs and lying? Or are you unsure about what is going on with him and his 'date' (he's probably having an affair, by the way)? How long to you intend to keep playing these games with each other?
Either way, if you want your relationship to be even remotely healthy you guys are going to need to cut this lying crap out and actually have a discussion like adults. Guessing and hinting and lying and breaking trust is never going to bring anything but harm.