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Old 06-26-2013, 10:44 PM
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SEcondary, we were saying what OUR experiences were, and what it is like FOR US when we love someone. No one said it was a rule that everyone else had to follow, nor that it is impossible to love more or less, even if several of us could not fathom quantifying love. Some other people said it did make sense, but those of us who said that the concept of loving in amounts doesn't make sense FOR US were simply stating our subjective opinions, nothing more. Obviously, you took issue with others having different opinions on love than you have, but bringing it up here is not relevant to this topic! Why are you going on about that on a thread where the OP is in pain over a break-up?
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