Originally Posted by london
If you have an argument with your partner, that's your business and it's fine for you to share your business with anyone you want. I think rules like these ones are usually designed to keep a degree of separation between one's partner and their metamour.
totally agree. BF and I discuss our spouses, our relationships with them, pretty much there is little i would not tell him and he me. not that it MUST be this way, but your life and experiences are yours to do with what you choose