Originally Posted by london
I use both hormonal and barrier contraception so the chances of me getting pregnant are slim. I also wouldn't fluid bond with anyone that I know I would hate to have a baby with, or definitely didn't want children but was still able to.
Secondly, as I've said more than once, the paternity would be an influencing factor rather than a decisive one.
The people I meet tend to share my risk assessment in regards to stds. Regular tests, condoms with randoms and casuals unless you've shared results. They expect the same from the people they sleep with and/or fluid bond with and to protect myself from any consequences of having an undiagnosed sti, I get tested frequently.