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Old 06-26-2013, 01:29 PM
gorgeouskitten gorgeouskitten is offline
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Im going to go out on a limb here and tell you i did bring up poly before 'working on the marriage'. For myself, I knew that i could not work on things with him under the assumption that i wanted to be mono, because i would be unhappy and it wouldnt actually work. before i asked to go poly, we tried a counselor and it was just a horrible awful experience. I decided to just ask/tell him, and go from there. I realize this wouldnt work for everyone...but I knew that if i tried to 'fix' our relationship while he thoguht i wanted only him, i was being dishonest. I dont know if you want more info than that but im happy to talk
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