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Old 06-26-2013, 05:09 AM
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Notice that the people that feel you require extraordinary amounts of attention also think that one partner had next to no responsibility for meeting another partners needs. I used to think like that, so unless a person naturally behaved in a way that met all my needs, I'd dump them, simply because I didn't want to pressure them to change. Guess what though? Some of those guys wanted to meet my needs, the things I required weren't things that would mean they had to change the essence of who they are and had they known that x would have made the difference for me, they would have given me x willingly. I let some good people go because I didn't want to make my needs, their needs. Of course there is a balance, a happy medium, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with trying to find it.
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