I have been in a serious relationship with Murf who is mono for over a year. It has been pretty damn good. He is where I find inner peace. He comes with no pressure and no drama.
My poly husband is quite the opposite for me.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.