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Old 06-25-2013, 04:08 PM
gorgeouskitten gorgeouskitten is offline
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my bf and i sort of went through this...he had to wait for me to broach poly with my spouse, and get him on board so we could have a relationship. But i never fobbed him off about it, i kept him current on my relationship with spouse, how it was going, the things i was saying. We are all now quite happy (though BF's wife actually turned out to be less ok than we'd thought! even though they were poly first). It sounds like your friend is not being this open with you, or the spouse. communication is key, the backbone of poly as far as im concerned
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