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Old 06-25-2013, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Flowerchild View Post
This probably concerned me most. Using poly to "fix" a relationship, well, it might work, but not in any cases I've seen. I don't mean to blame you, but I'd hate you to get your heart broken again.
I have to agree. in my case, amazingly, it did help heal our relationship...but i think that was a very rare instance. it didnt mend things by givign me or him an outlet we didnt have before (though it did that also) but by making us stronger and more connected as a couple, i can see it having the opposite effect. Also, my spouse got to know my bf well and theyve become friends, and im working on forging a relationship with his wife. i think everyone being able to play nice is a big deal
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