would never work for me, part of what makes poly work so well for spouse and i is that we tell each other nearly everything, he even knows some naughty details of me and BF's sex life. (not that everyone has to go that far). I think we would both be very uncomfortable with dont ask dont tell, spouse will even reference me and BF;s intimate life TO BF, makes BF a little uncomfortable but hes getting used to it and they get on well.
keep on keeping on
Last edited by nycindie; 06-26-2013 at 02:24 PM.