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Old 06-24-2013, 10:06 PM
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Long term consequences.

When considering your choices-consider the LONG term consequences. Not just what it feels like today.

In his shoes-how would you feel if...

In the future how will you feel about yourself if...
about her if...
about him if...

how will your husband feel if...

I like to consider what message I am sending with my actions-and that message isn't JUST being sent to the person I am dealing with. Your actions with her send messages to her, to your husband, to her husband. The messages are all probably different.

If trust, honesty and forthrightness are important to you and your husband-how will your actions be read by him-if you choose to partner with someone who isn't forthright and honest and trustworthy?

See what I mean?
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