Originally Posted by opalescent
If the time isn't right for her to tell her husband, it's not the right time to date her....you will not date her until she has talked things over with her husband explicitly.
I'd agree, and as I said, never mind dating, I think OP shouldn't even be texting constantly and intimately.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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