Like LR said depends on how your relationship is set up.
In mine that crap wouldn't go over to well. My husband knows unless one of the kids is really hurt or sick. Do not call unless someone has died or dying. I do not invade on his time away I expect the same.
Yes say something but don't do it in a worked up moment. After you have a chance to think about things calmly bring it up. Not via text or email either. Face to face.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.