1. The reasons why he isn't entirely comfortable with it is important in knowing how to step forward. From experience, many people see fluid bonding as a romantic gesture rather than how I see it as an act of convenience. If you're into the good poly that the majority of us try to practice that doesn't control our partners relationships, fluid bonding is the last little privilege we have to separate our primary style relationships. It can be scary to abandon it.
2. I agree, but I don't see fluid bonding as a romantic gesture as such. It's harder to see it that way if you do believe it as a status symbol.
3. That would be awkward. No denying it. Talk about the possibility if it before. Thoughts, plans, etc.
Last edited by london; 06-22-2013 at 02:44 PM.