He decided that he would rather have me than not in his life. He is fine with my husband in fact they have gotten to be sort of friends.
He gets that I love them both equally and is ok with it. He accepts me as I am. Has never tried to be a cowboy or even hinted at my becoming mono.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.