A couple of days ago, we had a big ribbon-cutting event for something I've been working on at my job. Davis came out and we got lunch together afterwards. As we were parting, he hugged me tightly. It was a relief not to feel so physically alienated from him.
He says he's doing a lot of thinking. He says he doesn't know whether his reaction was really mostly about my condom decision with Clay, or whether there were many issues and that was just the straw that broke the camel's back, but that either way the camel's back is broken and he needs to decide whether or not he wants a new camel.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.