Originally Posted by charmedquark
The reason I wanted Brian to avoid PIV sex was that he has some pretty hardcore sexual dysfunction. That has, historically, been aggravated by him adding new partners. Twice running now, he has taken a new lover, and his dysfunction has worsened quite a bit with me, but he's been fine with the new person.
1. You cannot fix your partners sexual proclivities, nor should you desire to do so
2. Your partner is not your employee so you cannot restrict their actions as if they are
3. You can deal with your own reactions to your environment