Wait, wait, they chucked her out because she wasn't sexually attracted to the wife?
And you think this is normal? And because you are not getting any sex that is the only reason why you don't think it is a good time to have a baby.
Good Grief....you know you do what you have to do because it is QUITE clear to me that you have no intention of leaving this abusive situation.
Sad, sad, sad.....