Originally Posted by kkxvlv
I guess I mean to say that that comment makes perfect sense if you're not in a relationship where someone feels it's responsible to dictate how the other is allowed to cum. Which is a position I doubt you would find acceptable to begin with.
LR seemed to not want to get into that particular part of the discussion so I just didn't address it. Yes, someone working *against* your desire to have an orgasm is a totally fucked up situation and (as mentioned earlier) it's more of a divorce issue than an orgasm issue.
Me: male, 40, straight, single