Hello from sunny Santa Barbara, California. I'm newly divorced after 17 years of marriage, and finally able to explore this whole poly thing that's been rattling around in my soul for the past few years. I'm a hetero guy and searching or friends, lovers, companions, comrades... Really anything. I have a budding relationship with an amazing girl who is so open and loving, it's completely blowing my mind. Unfortunately it's largely long-distance thing at the moment.
Anyway, just wanted to say hello and thanks for being here - this site has been a tremendous resource already. I look forward to getting to know some of you better as I post more.
"I'm terrified beyond the capacity for rational thought."