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Old 06-19-2013, 10:08 AM
Wifeto2 Wifeto2 is offline
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Default re: new and confused

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Originally Posted by Natja View Post
If you want to achieve this get rid of that rule PRONTO! It will make everyone completely miserable, especially you and your sexual relationship to your girlfriend will eventually suffer as the dynamic changes considerably when there is a penis in the room. Eventually your girlfriend will start to get hacked off by the rule anyway and to build up intimacy you need dyad time.

Your husbands issue stems directly from this rule. Now he associates sex with you with sex with gf, especially since she is all new and shiney.

Want happiness, end stupid rule. Otherwise see your relationship with dh ruined and/or gf walk away.
Thank you for responding. My only worry (stems maybe from insecurity) that is because they are having sex that he isn't going to want to have sex with me anymore. I guess I worry about being replaced as his sexual partner.
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