Okay first let me say that I am not saying that all my needs aren't being met. I just feel that I don't think I should have to say hey I want to watch tv or feel like I have to ask for my basic needs of affection to be met.
Today seemed a little more promising since she did express some loving care towards me. She actually has been sick all day but thanked me for takimg care of all the household duties and the child. Even hugged me. I see a glimmer of hope that things are getting better. We also talked about that I need to be talking to them if an issue comes up rather than just sweeping my feelings aside.
Thank you all for your input. I realize I might have to learn to met my own needs at times that they can't.