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Old 06-17-2013, 11:33 PM
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I use primary and secondary to describe levels of entanglement. Not everyone is married not everyone even cohabits and so the term would more or less be moot. But a hell of a lot of people do share practical entanglements and responsibilities with at least one partner, without marriage, and primary seems a good way of describing those relationships.
I use "primary" and "non-primary" in that case, i.e. when the practical entanglement is the only difference. I had always been uncomfortable with "secondary" because it implies less emotional involvement and/or a lesser status, but still used it for convenience, until I read this blog post: Why I say "non-primary", not "secondary".
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