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Old 06-17-2013, 06:19 PM
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There is nothing wrong with saying please do not pull me into your marriage problems it makes me uncomfortable. And explain why. My bf doesn't like to hear about my marriage. Because if he feels like my husband is doing something wrong then he wants to defend me.

Plus some people just cannot carry another's security issues in a relationship. For example I tend to overthink the small things. When we are solo my bf is very playful, Flirty,touchy feely. Not his normal persona tbh. When my kids are along for the weekend that sort of dries up. Come to find out he didn't know where the line was with the PDAs. He is not a man of many words so that little small touches and etc are important to me. If they stop then I worry.

It is my issue not his.
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