Dude, I've been having similar issues, myself. What I've isolated is that whilst he is with her and she wants monogamy, it's going to make me feel rocky. Just because she has laid out a monogamous relationship with her as an option. Something I couldn't offer him and if he took that option with her, it would exclude me. However, I posted a thread on here in which Marcus helped immensely, but I thought about what is going on a bit more logically. Sadly, her desire for him to be monogamous is killing his love for her. I can tell that by what he says. That might not be relevant for you though. But I'm as sure as I can be that he doesn't want to be monogamous with anyone, and that alleviates some of my concerns.
Last edited by london; 06-17-2013 at 05:26 PM.