Yup, definitely important to be able to be alone! I understand your concern about that. That's partly what I'm enjoying about the current long distance from everyone - enforced periods of solitude. Keep that 'comfortable spending time just with me' muscle strong.
Funny you should dream and be thinking about that particular boundary. I'm currently unpacking that same boundary with Grotto. It's probably better timing to think about it when it's not a live issue - you can work through it at your own pace rather than having to deal with an Incident
Gotta love Evan and Hank's united front when meeting your friends! So cute. A "You know poly's working when... " moment for sure!