This isn't a poly post at all today. I've been seeing women write on here and on facebook about feeling less attractive as they age. I was watching a video of me yesterday at 19(ish) and I am so much more attractive than I was then. I feel that as I am aging that I am really coming into myself and that I improve with age. You know, this is something I'm completely OK with. In a couple of years I will be 40. My 30's have been really good to me. I've learned a lot about who I am and that I can do anything that I set my mind to. I anticipate my 40's being a really good decade too.
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.